drop earlier if outgoing queue is semi-full

libi2pd/NTCP2.cpp

@@ -1250,8 +1250,13 @@ namespace transport
 	void NTCP2Session::PostI2NPMessages (std::vector<std::shared_ptr<I2NPMessage> > msgs)
 	{
 		if (m_IsTerminated) return;
+		bool isSemiFull = m_SendQueue.size () > NTCP2_MAX_OUTGOING_QUEUE_SIZE/2;
 		for (auto it: msgs)
-			m_SendQueue.push_back (std::move (it));
+			if (isSemiFull && it->onDrop)
+				it->Drop (); // drop earlier because we can handle it
+			else
+				m_SendQueue.push_back (std::move (it));
+		
 		if (!m_IsSending)
 			SendQueue ();
 		else if (m_SendQueue.size () > NTCP2_MAX_OUTGOING_QUEUE_SIZE)

libi2pd/SSU2Session.cpp

@@ -351,8 +351,12 @@ namespace transport
 	void SSU2Session::PostI2NPMessages (std::vector<std::shared_ptr<I2NPMessage> > msgs)
 	{
 		if (m_State == eSSU2SessionStateTerminated) return;
+		bool isSemiFull = m_SendQueue.size () > SSU2_MAX_OUTGOING_QUEUE_SIZE/2;
 		for (auto it: msgs)
-			m_SendQueue.push_back (std::move (it));
+			if (isSemiFull && it->onDrop)
+				it->Drop (); // drop earlier because we can handle it
+			else
+				m_SendQueue.push_back (std::move (it));
 		SendQueue ();
 
 		if (m_SendQueue.size () > 0) // windows is full